Do you think it is a bad thing if you don't have alot of friends?

my hubby and i like to be to ourselves alot...it's not that we don't like people...we just don't care to socialize alot...we like to watch tv...listen to the radio..... take walks together...we don't go to clubs or have people over...family members and such we do socialize with, but others we don't...people probably think we are very weird, but we don't care cause we are happy and that's all that matters....just wanted to see what people on here thought

Do you think it is a bad thing if you don't have alot of friends?
Here's your answer, "people probably think we are very weird, but we don't care cause we are happy and that's all that matters"





You knew all along didn't ya.





You guys are doin way better than most married people. You like each other and just like you say, that's all that really matters.





Me and my wife are like this also. We like each others company way more than goin with friends, family, or havin people over, or whatever.
Reply:It's not wierd at all. My parents don't socialise much either. We have one or two close friends of the family, who we see almost everyday as they live near us, but apart from that, they tend to prefer keeping out of the way of loads if people and like spending time with us kids. Theres nothing wrong with relying on family for company, just make sure that there are a few members that you are really close to!
Reply:Nope, usually all you need is one or two good friends. Everyone else is just there and it sounds like your hubby is one of your best friends. That's all you need. My wife and I are best friends and that's pretty much it. We have a couple of married couples we socialize with and that's all we need.
Reply:I think that women need friends to talk too. Although I have my hubby to discuss many things with and I love him for it. He can't give me a repsonse from a woman's perspective.


AND we all need to have some type of hobby, separation from home and friends are the perfect outlet. Just remember that you can't trust everyone with every detail/aspect of your life. It makes for a good balance too.
Reply:Well if your hubby is your best friend and you are his..then why should it matter? You guys enjoy each others company and are completely content. I think its perfectly normal for you two.





Haha just not me it would drive me insaneeeeeeee if I didnt go out and do something every now and again.





you guys have each other and that is all that matters. So cute!
Reply:Definatly not. As long as you have your husband, that's all that matters. You seem to not need the whole social scene, and are still happy. That's a good thing most of the time! Make sure you do have a couple of close friends/family in case something happens where you need to lean on them.
Reply:My husband and I are the same way. We don't socialize much. We have two couples that we get together with maybe 3-4 times a year. Other than that, we do things more with each other than anyone else. I don't feel it's wrong. And I don't think you should either.
Reply:In your case there is nothing wrong with not having a lot of friends, because you don't need or want a lot. Sounds like you're happy the way you are.
Reply:that is not a bad idea at all. you guys have each other. you are each others best friends. thats all you need.
Reply:Your husband is your best friend so who cares about other friends???
Reply:I have 3 best friends Ive known since 8th/9th grade--thats all I need....
Reply:it aint a bad thing...you wont have 2 worry about 2 many ppl backstabbing u