Friday, July 31, 2009

My girlfriend hates alcohol and ask me 2 quit it?

she hates all the sprits,beers... and i am a responcible drinker.. love 2 drink on the weekends with my mates..n never been out of control...n i do give her her share of time .. but she comes from a family where no body drinks ..so she has a perception that 1 day i'll become an alcoholic n probably finish my life of drinking alcohol..n will rewin our relationship.. what should i do? she is becoming serious abt it day by day..she is not realising that she is the 1 rewing the relationship by taking it 2 seriously ..n it will b really stupid of me to quit it as i dink just pints of beer on the weekends..

My girlfriend hates alcohol and ask me 2 quit it?
You can dump her, quit drinking or live with her nagging you. It does not sound like she is coming from a rational place so using logic and reasoning are unlikely to help.
Reply:drinkin is bad "mmmm-k"
Reply:I see her concern. Since your drinking habit is very steady, that could look like a sign of alcoholistm, believe it or not. But on the other note, have you tried telling her exactly what you disclosed in your question? It seems that if your girlfriend hears what you have to say, as you said here, she might not be so uptight. Just tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't understand it then you two shouldn't be together anyway. She should try to understand you and you could try to put yourself in her situation. It's about listening and honesty. Ask her to try to understand you, too.


By the way, I love to have a beer with my buddies. It's great at parties.
Reply:i guess you just have to choose between your girl and alcohol.


If your girlfriend doesnt want you to drink and you really care about her, then don't. If having fun drinking with your buddies is more important, then your girlfriends gotta go
Reply:she has to be a drinker if she's going out with you hahaha. jk jk jk jk. What i think you should do is if you really love her stop drinking, or sit her down and promise her you will keep it to a minimum. There is nothing wrong with a little drinking, but when that drinking turns into the capital sin of gluttony than there is a problem.
Reply:You need to find a different girl or a different hobby.
Reply:hey wow my friends situation is the same thing.... k first of al you need to set her down and tell her that you are a responsible drinker and that you do not drink during the week days when you have work the next day or school.... also that you will not become a alcoholic by drinking with your friends every weekend.... if you are in college or in you 20's or early 30's then its part of your age to do this.... drink hang with friends... u say that you give her time 2 of you being sober u guys go on dates and stuff so its not fair to you..... ummmmm i truthfully think just tell her that her nagging bout u drinking is going to make you want to drink even more.... so just leave it..... who knows once you guys get married or a little bit serious u might urself quit.... hope that helps and good luck
Reply:If you real love her, then Yes, but in second case...... NEVER
Reply:tell her NO, she wants to control you, if you give in now you will be a loose..........tell her you know your limit of drinking and its not daily.


some said to your answer....if you love her you should stop.


well, if she loves you she should let you enjoy your drink
Reply:she is concerned about you. that is why she asks you to quit drinking. you are saying that you are under control. may be for now. tomorrow without your realising or knowing it you may end up being addict. she is right in asking you to quit. if you are not able to accomodate her in this, probably you do not deserve her.
Reply:Give up if you just drink pints its easier otherwise you'll start with quarts soon.
Reply:Choice is yours alcohol or girlfriend.


Since u said u are not addicted leaving it wont be any problem!!
Reply:what do u think more important .ur girlfriend or alchohol.????


if u want to save the relationship ,it's ur duty to leave this addict. it is also injurious to ur health.
Reply:if she is asking to quit alchohol then


u MUST do it.


its benifit you from both side


one is g/f side and other is health side
Reply:drinking responsibly is a good thing but having a steady booze is certainly not good. she is just worried that it might ruin your health and boy, she is right. since you are having it on a steady basis, it may cause addiction. soon she may ditch you and that will cause you to vent out your feelings further on the drink. so try reasoning out with her and then see what the outcome is
Reply:now !!!


what you want????


you want to quit her???
Reply:if u want to be with her long, leave it.


she wants u healthy. otherwise she will not see u more





alcohol is alcohol don't see the % for excuse.


it is beer or wine whatever it may be.


definitely it will harm ur health.





if u really love her hate the alcohol.


there r so many purposes to live a god gifted life but this is definitely not the one.





wish u good relationship.
Reply:if u love ur girlfriend pls quit it becouse it is very bad habit


it is harmful for health $ welth
Reply:yes
Reply:dump ur girlfriend
Reply:Always listen to good advice, stop drinking. If it is not possible , leave your girlfriend


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