When my boyfriend looks at other girls it hurts me but he continues to look. is he wrong?

my boyfriend looks at other girls and thinks its ok knowing that it hurts me but he'll break his neck to look. He thinks its ok to look because he has been faithful but to me it doesn't matter. Looking at other women the way he does gives me a complex about myself and it only gets worse each time he looks at another one. is he wrong?

When my boyfriend looks at other girls it hurts me but he continues to look. is he wrong?
No! and you need therapy to improve your self worth
Reply:I am not going to say he is wrong. Guys are going to look. As long as he is not touching don't worry too much about it. My husband is the same way. But he comes home to me every night so I don't worry about it. Start looking at the girls too and let him know if they are hot or not. That's what I do. But seriously...do you never look at other guys and think they are hot? Just b/c you are in a relationship doesn't mean that you are blind. You are still going to look. You just have to have trust in each other that neither one of you are going anywhere.
Reply:Girl dump this bozo! That is completely childish and ridiculous and you're wasting a lot of time on his silly ***. He does not respect you at all. It doesn't matter what sweet words he says to you, that is so disrespectful and he may as well go and cheat. Some guys (and girls) do this as a cover up to make it look "ok" and give you the line they don't cheat on you blah blah blah. I sure hope you're not that naive to fall for it. You deserve so much better and there's 6 billion people in this world. I'd drop this guy yesterday!
Reply:You can't control other people.


Be confident in who you are and ignore it.


In fact....look around at other guys! And point it out--and break YOUR neck trying to look! And laugh about it ...smile... have a good time.


It's like art......you can view it and if other people tell you not to or to think differently about it, it won't change you looking at it, it will just make the person telling you not to look at it not want to be around a bossy person.





Make yourself more interesting than everyone else.....so when he looks he constantly thinks 'hey.....my girl is cuter, nicer, funnier, more sporty, more playful, more intelligent, more trendy, more talented....'
Reply:Neither of you are wrong.





Well, I personally dont think there is anything wrong in looking at anybody if there is trust in the relationship.





I went through the same, but instead of being angry with him, started commenting on how gorgeous a guy was when a truly handsome young man passed my way. He was startled, but I said "What Aishwarya Rai is to you is what Hrithik Roshan is to us. So we're even." He laughed about it.





Now both of us enjoy casual comments about any good looking person who passes our way.





If you don't trust the guy and is uncomfortable with the whole set up, try to move on and find someone you can.





If you trust him and it's just this habit that's annoying you, learn to ignore it. He may dislike some habits of yours too. Afterall, nobody is perfect.





Good luck.
Reply:you could look like Jessica Alba and he would still look at other woman. it's just what us men do. he should, however, be enough of a man to do it discretely or not at all when he is out with you. please don't take it personally. sit down and tell him that when he is with you, his eyes stay on you. period. he should be able to control himself. good luck.
Reply:HUmm if it bothers the way you have, and you feel its wrong you don't need other OK to dump him, show him how you feel and stand your grounds, he will lean his lesson and you dont have to put up with this sort of none sense.\


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goodluck. :-)
Reply:of course he is wrong!!!! i'd hate it if my bf was looking at other girls. its also wrong if he looks up other girls pics online or whatever. that is disrespectful and he should only have eyes for u. tell him you want him to stop and if he doesnt then dont put up with it!!!
Reply:It sounds like you have told him that it bothers you that when you are together that he looks at other girls.....well, you have told him that it hurts you and he continues to engage the behavior -- it doesn't sound like he cares about your feelings much.....
Reply:well it depend da way he look at other girlz so if he jst looking to make u jealous as a fun staff then we cant say that he is wrong but if he really like to look at girlz and cant stop his self from that then u can say that he is totally wrong so da answer is only in ur heart
Reply:I would start pointing them out to him, and make it a game and this way he can see how much he does it, then maybe he will stop.





ie: "Hey look at the **** on that one? He must have had those done, and he but is way toooo small"
Reply:that really is wrong i was having the same problem but then i threatened to breake up with him and now he stoped so if the y really love you they will do anything to stay with you
Reply:ahh! m sure he is no wrong...guy are naturally like dat. don't worry even my husband looks at other girls n will tell me look "kya pataaka hai"


cheer up n try n make fun out of these things too...ur boy friend will like ur maturity
Reply:Personally, i would let it slide, but you may want to go in the other direction and ogle good-looking guys and see where this goes
Reply:Not everything is WRONG or RIGHT. Its not "wrong" for him to look nor for you to dislike it.


I agree with Phoebe's answer.
Reply:hun you know you look as well..you cant tell me you dont...we are human...do you know most men go OH she has a butt like my girl does or boobs..





its NORMAL...as look as he is not turning his head and going damnnnnnnnn
Reply:Run Baby Run away from your Boyfriend!


Good Luck for Better b/f next time.
Reply:Yes he is wrong. He is being disrespectful and rubbing your face in it.
Reply:Get over it, so he is looking at other girls, get over it. he is a man
Reply:so poke his eyes out! what do u want from him--he's a guy and he has eyeballs!
Reply:Honestly its healthy for both of you guys to look as long as he is faithful. give him a dosage bak.
Reply:damm girl you allowing him to do dat while he is wit u. if it was me i wud dump